Tuesday, May 18, 2010

ya, sure, why NOT!

its just funny how sometimes we human tries to be a nice person, while having to do something which may upset themselves or having to go against one's will...

well, i am not talking about how one need to offer him or herself for others, but more like how we have to unwillingly lend things to our friends just because THEY ARE YOUR FRIENDS.... sometimes guys (i mean literally GUYS) are just pure ego-filled beings who will never decline an invitation or offer or even, request even they know well enough that its not what they really like or wants... everyone just wants to be a nice person, and put on the =D although its all  =C deep in their mind...

yea.. thats life...

=.=

5 comments:

AmeZac said...

There is nothing wrong of saying NO to your friends.. I do that all the time.. It depends on the situation (and of course the mood).. ;)

I don't know if my comment related to your post.

jared said...

if you're always going to say yes to every invitation you're going to get bullied around by people and if you're too nice I might just think you're being hypocrite at times. Its best to do something with good intentions rather then just in your mind or heart "oh damn it I shld have said no".
and no thats not life... life gives you a bigger reality hit on you then what you just wrote on your blog been there before.
sorry to say it but its true no hard feelings.
thats just my opinion.

Ign@tius said...

@ ame, well ya.... it does depends on mood, but sometimes i just feel bad saying NO without a good reason...

@ jared, yea... true.... its just that i dont mind it as long as they take good care of the things i borrow, or the invitation does not cause much of a trouble... sigh

Ign@tius said...

@ ame, well ya.... it does depends on mood, but sometimes i just feel bad saying NO without a good reason...

@ jared, yea... true.... its just that i dont mind it as long as they take good care of the things i borrow, or the invitation does not cause much of a trouble... sigh

jared said...

tsk... you can always say no once in awhile is okay. If he/she is asking too many requests from you then I think you're a sucker to accept all of it. I know it may seems bad to say no. It all depends on the situation. Its something to do with life and death or something that is very important then I'll help if its some itsy-bitsy things that they can do it themselves then I'll just have to say no.
sigh well we're all individuals I guess you would be the good samaritan