Monday, January 10, 2011

think it over



as i was in the car listening to the radio this morning, the question of 'How long should a cooling period be after a break up before starting a new relationship comes in' had me thinking for quite a bit...

according to the DJ, a good way of getting the math around it is basically 1/2 of the period of you being attached to your partner(currently ex)... i dont know but i kinda find it a bit not right in that sense but i reckon that at or about 2 months would be a great period to get things settled, and back to the real world and face the future...

you see, i had this agreement with my ex that if any of us would request for a break-up or to end the relationship, we would give each other at least 3 months to think and to see if the decision made for a break up would be wise... i personally think that it would be a great way to ask yourself how much your actually love that someone and to decide if the decision made for a break up was a good one...

what do you think??

p/s. im not a love guru or even close to one, and i've broken up with my lover several months ago, but i think that the 3 months thing was a good cool down/ thinking period..